Deployments are hard

My Husband was deployed 5 months ago. There has not been a day that goes by that it hasn't been hard. It seems like everything goes wrong all the time. It's amazing how things work better when the love of your life is beside you. The trials you face alone are hard but whats worse is when your husband has seen and gone thru hell and back. You not only have to learn to deal with the issues that come up here at home but you also have to learn to deal with issues that come up with him and the things he has seen and done. When they do finally come home you really don't know what you will be facing together. My husband is an excellent soldier this is what he was born to do. But I can't help but wonder if this war will change him in a good way or bad. The not knowing is the hard part. I pray for god to guild us down this long road thats ahead of us.